Many times, before a promise comes to pass, you have to go through a season of silence where you don’t see anything changing. This is when many people give up on what they’re believing for. But just because you don’t see anything happening doesn’t mean God is not working.
Self love isn’t the girlie people on here make her to be. You can’t self love yourself out of loneliness or out of oppression. People need communities, companionship, support and love. Life is meant to be shared. No amount of self love can substitute these things