things you need to be okay with:
1. you can go out of your way to help people but they won’t always reciprocate
2. instant coffee is shit but you will drink a great deal of it anyway
3. there will be problems that aren’t your fault but you will still have to deal with them
The kindest thing literature does is remind you that your peculiar little feelings have always existed. Someone, in some century, was equally confused by love, bored by society, tired of performing, and hungry for meaning.
Sometimes, u meet people* in life who doesn't know about boundaries. It is very important u educate them on the subj.
*Client mong gatwag 7AM pa na di man urgent 🥴 Unless you're dying or you're in jail or in an accident, pls lnggggg. Di pa gyud ta close 😩
What Shin Minah said about romantic relationships and friendships is so true
"Deep down, we already know whether someone is meant to be our life partner or not. We just tend to deny it because of our feelings"
"We can sense who truly makes us feel comfortable and at ease. The same goes for friendships. If you feel that a relationship is toxic, you have to set boundaries. It may be better to slowly distance yourself rather than force a relationship that doesn't bring you peace"
#ShinMinAh #ShinMinA
Nganong murag ako ra interested ani na trip? 2wks nlng wla pa IT. Wla pa gni nag-ask passport deets, and pay travel tax. Last minute ghapun ni? Murag laag lng na dnhi ra? Never again.