“he treated her badly because she wasn’t his dream girl”, “he would’ve changed for the women he actually wanted”
why are you people excusing men’s bad behavior at every turn lol
first of all people don’t change for others, they change for themselves, and it’s a rarity. they may mask themselves for a period of time with the goal of keeping someone in their life, but it never lasts.
second of all if a man is not with a woman he likes or loves the answer to that is breaking up with her not treating her like shit.
stop the misogyny slop.
— 90’s™️ fine black women 👩🏾💋🌹🍫 | black women are beautiful in every decade, but in the 90s? they just hit different! so many black beauties, i couldn’t list them all! this is what we mean when we say “that 90s type of fine”.
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i really don't like how people talk to black women. it's very degrading and dehumanising, like they've already established in their head that black women are beneath them. the black community normalises this type of dynamic by calling bw and girls "btches", "hos" and "females"
stop telling woc that they should ignore the blatant racism in books written by old ass white women who are seen as feminist icons simply because “in their time period hating black and brown women was normal” and “them being racist doesn’t take away from them being good writers”