The best decision I ever made was to be quiet. I've nothing to prove, I'm not convincing anyone. I'm not fixing what I didn't break. I'm not fighting for anyone to see my worth. Whatever u do is on u. Just hope u don't regret it. As for me, I'm moving forward, free & at peace.
Normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you regardless of what they say. Telling you all of the right words but giving you none of the right actions is called manipulation. If they wanted to, they would. Period.
The older you get the more you realize that everything REALLY is that deep.. the people you confide in, trust, date, become friends with, the opportunities you take. What you consume mentally, spiritually, & emotionally. It’s very deep & shouldn’t be taken lightly!
Maturity is when you stop wasting time convincing people to treat you correctly. You just start to observe their choices, understand their character, and decide what you’re going to allow in your life.
Healing taught me that honesty pays. Speaking about your feelings won't lose you anything worth having. Setting boundaries won't scare off people who are meant to be in your life & being your true self won't cost you genuine relationships
03:00 As we face both known and unknown challenges of the new year, grant us strength and courage. Help us to rely on your mighty power and to find our refuge in you. May we be steadfast in our faith, knowing that you are our rock and our fortress.
No more repeated cycles. It’s time to grow. Life is full and overflowing with the new. But it’s necessary to let go of the life you planned to make room for the life that is waiting for you. This chapter of your life is called make room for the unexpected, and be open to change.
sometimes, you have to decide, “this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way” and stand on it. Whether it’s family, a relationship, or a friendship.
The secret is I do what works for me. I don't compare, I don't copy, I don't watch. I support others & it's genuine support. I'm always in my own lane, riding my own wave, eyes on my own paper!
Guys, if you lose interest in a person, please make them aware. The coldness in ur tone and texts, the emptiness in your hugs, and spaces in ur conversations... calls not answered, those things hurt more than if you were to tell the truth, because they are like a slow death.
The only way to impress me, is by being a good person. I don't care what you have, what you wear, where you live, or what you drive. I just have deep respect for people with pure hearts and good intentions.
Unhealed trauma makes you hold onto people longer than you should and tolerate sh*t you don't deserve because you lack self-worth and don't want to feel alone. Healing makes you realize some people don't deserve to be in your life — no matter how much you love them.