This is something we need to address in our society. If somebody cannot pay his rent or feed, it says a lot about the people in his life. We need to stop acting like life is individual and we don’t need people. The problem is that we have validated dropping people when life happens to them and ignoring the reality of vulnerable people in our circle.
If you hear somewhere that Yomyom cannot afford to pay his rent, it says a lot about me as a friend. No story! Why would you have friends or family that can cover it and it is not covered. If my friend dies, I have a responsibility to see that his family does not suffer and his kids go to good schools. If my friend is hungry, I have a responsibility to ensure he feeds and finds his feet.
Relationship comes with responsibility. You have a duty to your family, your partner, your friends. That is what makes life worth living.
A good time to make this spread and trend again…….
Let’s go !
Jesus just has to be who He says He is. No one gives this joy that He gives.
We celebrate our king, JESUS !
#Jesus#Repost
They hurt the ones they knew cared deeply & would do anything for them. They believed there was some peak happiness out there, not realizing that happiness is layered, it’s a hierarchy and not a final destination. So when they fail to find that elusive high, they circle back to the people who once loved them unconditionally, hoping to reclaim what they didn’t value before.
@RefilweSeboko Because he couldn't find anyone else to pester, so he thinks if he acts nice to now, you will let him back into your life. After you do that, he will hurt you again.
If you pay enough attention you can tell when someone isn’t really feeling you. They can be completely obsessed with you & still ghost you. Interest & attraction aren’t moral indicators. If you really want to know who they are… wait. Let me explain;
Almost all of my adult life, I’ve been the one constantly reaching out to people, checking on them and keeping tabs. As of right now, I am absolutely done. I will not be doing that again.
I’m passing the phone to that person who has been hurt, maybe by a friend, someone you loved deeply, or even family. The kind of hurt that leaves you quiet and tired, the kind that makes your heart feel like it’s bleeding because you gave so much and still got treated like you didn’t matter.
My next relationship will be my last & ordained by God, so l'm not searching for it, I'm not chasing it, l'm not stressing over it, & l'm not rushing. I want this LOVE to discover me naturally, to understand me deeply, to choose me fully, & to grow with me slowly.
One of my friends said that situationships are one of the hardest “almosts” to move on from. There wasn’t enough clarity to grieve it properly. Just memories you were never sure meant anything.
“But even now, a small part of you still wonders... was it ever that deep for him?”
@Divayetty1 Dude enjoys her company but doesn't want her like that. Not ready for the commitments but enjoys the attention it comes with. As simple as we are, we can make simple things complicated.
I'm a child of God.🥇🏆
Financially, I'm going to win.
In my career, I'm going to win.
Mentally, I'm going to win.
Emotionally, I'm going to win.
Physically, I'm going to win.
With my family, I'm going to win.
In love, I'm going to win.
In my life, I'm going to win.