Avoidants be like:
I'm going to pursue you relentlessly, build a connection, and convince you we're headed somewhere real. Then the second i'm expected to take accountability for my actions, communicate like an adult, or face conflict, i'm going to disappear because avoiding my problems is easier than confronting them. After that, I'll just tell everyone we 'grew apart' or that 'things just didn't work out' because i'm a fucking coward.
I’m not reading all that because I simply do not care about whatever drivel you spew to defend the very nations that colonized you and raped and murdered your people. Only cowards defend fheir oppressors, luckily most Chinese people have the common sense to not suck the dicks of the people who massacred them and imposed their inferior culture upon them. You must be the exception to the beautiful culture that is China.
@Elenacarrodovo@mikhaela_mjl If you feel like you aren’t a whole person unless you’re being penetrated by a male then you live a sad and sorry life. Don’t project your desperation onto those of us with fulfilling connections to the people in our lives
people with friends and family who love them arent lonely, you should consider why you feel unfulfilled without male validation and why you place all the value of love on whether or not you’re fucking a man instead of placing it on the love you receive from the people who genuinely care about you without access to your body being a requirement of that care
@hotyapper the way some atiny would rather focus on needless and presumptive hate trains against translatiny rather than the active voting going on right now is exactly why this fandom can’t get shit done😭
The world would be such a better place if people gave others a bit of grace and understood that shit happens in ppls lives that we don’t know about, and maliciously targeting people for shit like not responding to dms is just such immature and self-focused behavior. Ppl who assume the worst in others and in translatinys before even bothering to ask if someone is okay don’t get to claim a moral high ground smh
Everyone claims to support mental health until ppl exhibit actual symptoms of depression, I’ve been there before and gone months not responding to ppl in my life even my own family for that reason and for people to hate on you for such a common and debilitating symptom of depression is just so vile and it’ll be the same ones preaching about mental health who do it. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that my love, idk why nobody can talk things out like adults without crashing out and creating a whole hate train against ppl they don’t even know and whos struggles they know nothing about
other fandoms are saying that we suck at voting so the mushow competition isnt serious and idk about u but i cant let them have this 😭 we WILL win every single poll, on every app. just like adrenaline era when we locked in to secure 5 wins, including on shows we didnt win before
This concept changed my brain chemistry entirely. Every time I’m anxious I just keep repeating “don’t suffer twice” cuz literally why the fuck would I do that