went to a school play and some girls hit puberty earlier than the rest and multiple moms said they were “dressed inappropriately” and looked like they were “about to poledance” and it reminded me of how traumatic puberty can be for young girls. immediately you’re something else.
If you’re in a family home and the men in that house leave the toilet seat up, I see that as an indication of unchecked toxic patriarchal energy within the home