@lcnwokeji@elreydoncarter@Giodude1580 Me too! It's nice to be able to understand where each other are coming from. It's easy to think other ppl are being militant/malicious, but it can often be a perspective thing. And just bc race is part of the equation doesn't mean it has to be a big serious angry thing π
@23skiddsy@Giodude1580 I also don't think your "if" is useful. The sea lion didn't seem to stop for the other child so what does it matter. We look at what happened: child tried to take over the game/experience instead of watching. Very straightforward. Not a big deal. Like I said, teachable momentπ
@23skiddsy@Giodude1580 I grew up a black foster child in small white town. A friend, when we were older, admitted to telling her mom she should have the cool pants I had in grade4 bc "[I] didn't even have a mom" bc her mom told her "you can't have everything x has". She knew it was wrong of young her.
@260828jin@leilanisrina@benoiret@BasedMistress_ I am very educatedπ Yes it exists in different communities but we're talking about Megan here who is BLACK. It exists in many communities, that's the point- it exists WITHIN those communities. Colorism is a huge problem in India for example. It doesn't exist ACROSS communities.
@crisjustmight@keaaaaley "Blackness" was created to literally represent not being white. White ppl looked at black ppl and said "you are NOT us". A biracial child cannot "identify" into whiteness, bc "whiteness" is the state/visible identity of being purely white.
@crisjustmight@keaaaaley I dont care about tyla really, but I feel compelled to say here that whiteness is about purity. You can't be "part white" or "half white", it's like an oxymoron. You can have proximity to whiteness, but if both your parents aren't (mostly) white then you can't be white.
@elreydoncarter@Giodude1580 My point is, it's not crazy to understand that racial dynamics exist among children. Lots of ppl would take that away from the original post.
@elreydoncarter@Giodude1580 I mean, I think my last reply covered it pretty well. I said **I don't think it's right to call a child a colonizer**. And added that I felt compelled to say that "kids being kids" can include "racial shit".
@swilkerson22@zobiwankenobii Doing makeup/dressing nice/getting facials is fun & relaxing. Breast surgery is not. Lots of women do makeup & dress up for FUN. Feeling/being pretty isn't soley about attracting men. The goal is to like how you look, and find a guy that does too. Not to change yourself for a guy
@swilkerson22@zobiwankenobii Doing makeup and dressing nice and getting facials is fun and relaxing. Breast surgery is not....Lots of women do their makeup and wear clothes they like for FUN. For their own pleasure. Feeling/being pretty isn't soley about attracting men.
@Lost_Found_Rec@Giodude1580 I agree it's weird to call the kid a colonizer!
I just felt compelled to add that "kids being kids" can definitely include "racial shit". Racism and prejudice are taught afterall. Kids feel entitlement, and understand hierchy based on race π€·π½οΏ½οΏ½βοΈ
@zackisrael1@Giodude1580 My other comment:
I think calling the kid a colonizer is really dumb too!
I felt compelled to add that "kids being kids" can definitely include "racial shit". Racism and prejudice are taught afterall. Kids feel entitlement, and understand hierchy based on race π€·π½ββοΈ
@leilanisrina@benoiret@BasedMistress_ Okay some of y'all must be very confused. Colorism is something that exists WITHIN the black community. There is no "colorism" going on between Meg and Zara bc Zara is not black! (Of course Zara is not facing colorism lol...again she is not black).