Si pudiera eliminar algo esta civilización, eliminaría la familia. La nuclear y la extensa. Los lazos de parentesco y los ritos a ellos asociados. La institución entera. Veo las familias y solo veo limitación del individuo, manipulación, tedio, melodrama, parálisis e hipocresía.
Actions over intentions.
“A person can want you with their feelings and still fail you with their habits.
Emotion comes naturally to people, behaviour does not.
Most of us love with the same instincts we grew up with, and never realise our default settings are doing the damage.
You start noticing the gap between how deeply they care and how loosely they live.
They show up with intensity, but disappear in the details.
They mean every word, but their patterns pull in the opposite direction.
Not because they do not love you, but because no one ever taught them how to hold what they want without dropping it.
Affection is easy.
Consistency requires a kind of self-awareness most people spend years avoiding.
Love without structure feels warm at first, then unstable, then unsafe.
Not because the love is weak, but because it has no shape, no rhythm, no reliability.
Emotional safety dies quietly in that space, not from lack of love, but from the weight of someone who never learned how to turn feeling into action.
And the hardest truth is this: someone can truly want you and still not be prepared for the version of themselves they would need to become to keep you.” — the brilliant Warpaint Journal
James Van Der Beek’s final message to the world is one of the most powerful things I have ever heard. Stop whatever you are doing and listen to this! 🥺
How avoidants actually fall in love: the science.
Not the movie version. Not the “they just need to open up” myth.
What actually happens in their brain is very different. 🧵
AI is going to wipe out at least 25 million jobs in the next 5 to 10 years. Probably much more. It will destroy every creative field. It will make it impossible to discern reality from fiction. It will absolutely obliterate what’s left of the education system. Kids will go through 12 years of grade school and learn absolutely nothing. AI will do it all for them. We have already seen the last truly literate generation.
All of this is coming, and fast. There is still time to prevent some of the worst outcomes, or at least put them off. But our leaders aren’t doing a single thing about any of this. None of them are taking it seriously. We’re sleepwalking into a dystopia that any rational person can see from miles away. It drives me nuts. Are we really just going to lie down and let AI take everything from us? Is that the plan?
La presidenta @Claudiashein
Exige disculpas a España por los muertos de hace 500 años cuando debería ofrecerlas ella por los mexicanos que mueren hoy.
Carlos Manzo, joven y valiente alcalde de Uruapan, última víctima de la violencia que desangra México.
Descanse en paz.