I'm actively trying to unlearn every toxic trait within me. Ion want to argue, be disrespectful, act cold or question love. i want to be emotionally intelligent, gentle and intentional w my person.
i’ve never been afraid of death.. when it’s my time, well it’s my time. but the way death has displayed itself in my life in the past few years?? i wonder.. why?
One thing I’ll never apologize for, is the way i react to somebody having me fucked up. You chose your action, I chose my response now we both in shock.
If you lack emotional intelligence, we will never work out for real. I’m not teaching you how to apologize, take accountability, or treat me with respect. These are basic qualities you should already have before entering a relationship.
i think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this and only thinking about others.
I go through my shit & never make it anybody else’s problem, I never have a change of attitude towards anyone, I actually hide the things I go through. Nothing weak about me. My favorite thing about myself.