how they treat you, is how they feel about you. donโt try to decipher it or make excuses. it's simple, if they act like they donโt care, they donโt care, because if they truly liked you, they wouldn't put you in a position where you have to wonder why they act the way do
normalize not reaching out to someone who hasn't replied to a text or returned a call in hours or days. they know they haven't spoken to you, and it's because they don't want to.
I found a prayer in Ruth 3:18 this afternoon.
Lord, for matters concerning my life & destiny, let men & women whom you have chosen & touched to help me not rest until itโs settled for my good and in my favor. And may I learn to wait patiently for how you work it out.