The biggest lie society sells us is that women are the "emotional" gender and men are the "logical" ones. When you actually look at the dating market, the reality is the exact opposite.
Men are the true romantics. Women are the pragmatists.
A successful man, a CEO, a lawyer, a doctor will happily marry a woman who works as a cashier, a waitress, or is completely unemployed. He doesn't care about her status, her network, or her bank account. He marries her simply because she brings him peace, she is kind, and she makes him smile.
He loves her for who she is, not what she can do for him.
Now flip it. Ask a successful woman to marry a kind, loving, loyal man who works as a cashier.
The answer is almost always a hard "No."
Suddenly, "love" isn't enough. Suddenly, she needs "ambition." She needs "security." She needs a man on her level or higher.
A woman rarely falls in love with a manβs soul; she falls in love with his trajectory. She loves what he can provide, where he can take her, and the lifestyle he unlocks.
Men grow up thinking love is a fairy tale. They project their own capacity for unconditional love onto women. They think, "If I give her my heart, she will have my back."
They learn the hard way that female love is performance-based. The moment he loses the job, the moment the confidence wavers, or the moment he stops being "useful," the "romance" evaporates.
We call men "dogs" and "players," but men are the only ones willing to bet their entire lives on a partner who brings nothing to the table but her presence. Women love with a calculator in their hand. Men love with their eyes closed. And that is exactly why men are the ones who get destroyed they are trying to play a game of hearts with a gender that is playing a game of chess.
I stand by my words. Content in my decision. The tweets are deleted due to seeking peace, not fear. Yall need to understand this is something that has happened since I was 19. My goal now is happiness
- Bonang Matheba is selling champagne and lingerie
- DJ Zinhle is selling earrings, hats and weaves
- Somizi is selling kids clothes
- Lerato kganyago is selling Flutter by LKG pads
- Kim Kardashians is selling make up, perfume and clothes
- Beyonce is selling clothes and perfumes.
- Charity is selling flowers, funeral covers and tombstones.
Conny Ferguson, Anele Mdoda advertise funeral policies and they get paid for it. Wena you are too good for that yet your things are not going well
You can name all of your favorite celebrities.
The point is you envy their lifestyle but you don't want to put in the work to better your life.
It doesn't make sense to me but ke its your choice.
If you want my advice.
SELL SOMETHING!!! WAKE UP!! No one is coming to rescue you
@KoosVanDerMerwe: "#Ourperfectwedding#OPW is dead without you, no wonder I have forgotten about it. you are a born leader and we love you, South Africa loves you."
Me: That's why I no longer have interest to watch perfect wedding anymore, bakhiphe our best presenters.