I watched my cat be a cat today and I was delighted by the smallest things. The sound his little paws make on the parquet, the sound it makes when he drinks water... we don't deserve animals ๐ญ๐
But getting therapy for an issue like this seems almost counter-productive. I want to feel better about myself, but will my productivity and results suffer if I learn to be less self-critical and overachieving? That's the question.
It's weird having a mental illness that *improves* your function in society, 'cause although it doesn't have a negative impact on your social life or your job, it still has a negative impact on your feelings.
If I receive a "good" rating at work, I'll question for weeks what I need to do to get an "excellent" and lose sleep/appetite over it.
If I receive an "excellent" rating, I'll worry over how to retain this and live up to people's high expectations in me.
@CryptoNteCrwler@jk_rowling@ellisgreg JK is the one obsessed with sex. She's literally said it's sex that matters the most.
Liberal/progressive gender identity is the opposite of having to do with sex...
@will5023@AkikoKumagara @forknoyuki @all_aloner@EliErlick you're convoluting the necessary elements to develop a game with the job title "game developer." game developers create the code and software. being part of the development doesn't make you a developer.
To everyone angry about the teachers, nurses, civil servants, etc., striking today - I hope you are directing your anger at the right people (i.e. the government), and not those fighting for better rights for ALL of us.
BREAKING - The National Audit Office has been unable to sign-off the UK Health Security Agency 2021/22 accounts as:
"There was a lack of adequate governance, oversight & control at UKHSA."
Balances unaccounted for:
โข ยฃ794m of stock
โข ยฃ1.5bn of accruals from NHS Test & Trace
@mt3xr1@astroidangels@gyarufem i didn't assume anything about their preferences and I'm sorry it sounded like that's what i meant. i'm a queer woman myself and get annoyed about the stereotype that stereotype about bi people you mentioned too. have a good day and i appreciate the conversation
@mt3xr1@astroidangels@gyarufem you know what, you're right, my original comment was rash and blunt. i totally get if people are uncomfortable, i just assume that's how most people fliry, but it's totally reasonable and fair that some people don't like physical touches
@mt3xr1@astroidangels@gyarufem my thinking was just "why would another woman be touching you (a woman)?" and my first thought would be "she's probably sapphic and into you"
@mt3xr1@astroidangels@gyarufem im not saying you're attracted to every person you meet, just that the reason why a stranger might be touching you is because they're into you