bontle_oru

Radiation therapist | Health & Wellness (IG : @bontle_oru / @strength2you) |

[bontle_oru @bontle_oru]

Hi

[bontle_oru @bontle_oru]

@_SihleKunene Do you still have them , I’m interested

[bontle_oru @bontle_oru]

@CityPowerJhb Any updates on Mayfair Smit street ?

[Raesetja @Raesetja123]

La Joya in Hartebeesport. They have rooms from R2000 and luxury chalets at around R3000 p/n .

[Aphelele Jody @ApheleleJody]

This combo

[Cinderella Man @Osi_Suave]

My wife is away for work, and I am utterly adrift without her.

Nights feel longer. The silence is heavier. I find it hard to sleep without her beside me, her breathing, her warmth, the quiet gravity of her presence. Day by day, we’ve woven ourselves into each other’s rhythm thread by thread until I can no longer tell where I end, and she begins.

There’s no one to watch shows with, pausing to laugh or comment on a character’s foolishness. No one to share a meal with, not just the food, but the feeling of being known while eating. Sometimes, we just sit in silence, doing our individual tasks, but in that silence, I feel safe, loved and understood.

Marriage, when done right, isn’t a prison. It’s a greenhouse. You grow in it upward, outward. You bloom. I only wish I’d married her sooner.

Every act of sacrifice I make for her big or small is done not out of duty but devotion. Because she has brought such rich, radiant meaning to my life.

I remember coming home exhausted one night and falling asleep on the couch. I woke up with my shoes off, a blanket tucked around me and somehow, that moment told me everything I needed to know about love.

Marriage, when in sync with the right person, is like downshifting from gear 8 to gear 3 as you approach the Bus Stop chicane at Spa-Francorchamps.

You’re flying at 300 kph, the engine screaming, the world a blur, and then
8. 7. 6. 5.4.3.

Your brain compresses time.
Your left foot dances.
Your fingers are poised.
Your soul smiles.

Each downshift lands like a heartbeat, perfectly in time. The engine brake sings a beautiful symphony of pressure and grace. The gearbox spits and crackles like applause in a cathedral. The car shudders not in fear but in response. It’s alive. And you are dancing with it.

As you trail-brake into the corner, the rear end flickers just enough to remind you that you're mortal, but you're calm. Gear 3 locks in. The car rotates like it’s thinking with you, not against you. You glide over the curb, short-shift to 4th, and rocket out of the apex with purpose.

That’s what marriage is.
When it works, it’s not chaos. It’s control. It’s not noise. It’s harmony.
It’s not slowing down, it’s finding the right gear to move forward together.

[bontle_oru @bontle_oru]

Is anyone else having issues with receiving delivery updates from @afrikhano_interior (the furniture store) ?🥲💔

[Karsen 🇵🇸 @karsbreanne]

Marry a calm man

[Mbali 🌸 @SisMbali__]

I love how my husband doesn’t ask a lot of questions about meals 😂 If it’s 7 colours he will eat and enjoy. If it’s boerewors rolls on a random weekday he will also eat and enjoy without questions. He takes whatever I have the capacity to give and I really appreciate that 🥹❤️

[fifi❤️ @RefilweSeboko]

NO amount of budgeting or not eating at restaurants will make up for the fact that we do not make enough money anymore for this economy.

[Luna M ✨ @tiredfeminist_]

Her frustration is so valid but I couldn’t stop laughing😭😭😭 she is so funny

[Model Drop Daily @Mellow_Xxi]

I have a car on my vision board, i don't know how I'm getting it but I'm trust God.

[Princess A @cessadelove1]

YOU WILL END JANUARY WITH A BIG WIN.

[Gugu Dlamini @ggdlams]

I keep saying, there’s money in online teaching. If you wanna make moola in the comfort of your home. Check out my pinned tweet ❤️ you’re welcome 😉

[Benji Newman @acebenji]

God is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo good.

[Codie Sanchez @Codie_Sanchez]

I’m 38.

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