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Trying to understand the world one book at a time...if you don't get that, bite me-no, seriously, I kinda like that thing.

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@Ghost_RC_ @celestialbe1ng And many of the studies I've just read, honestly, like 12, comment /address the issue of men believing that women desire a more increased level of musculature than they do.

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@Ghost_RC_ @celestialbe1ng I read your comments below & think you are being thoughtful about your discussion, so, I'm seriously interested here...have you read those studies? Most of the studies I've found (acknowledged w/in past hour) discuss majority of women preferring moderate musculature in men.

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@Nunnie3001 @LizzyStarrrdust I took it to mean that we, as individuals, do tend to have groups of things that we select for or against, when we look for a partner/hook-up. While that may automatically cut out individuals within those groups who could fit us, that's just the first level of selection most use.

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@Nunnie3001 @LizzyStarrrdust Not to be snarky at all, but honestly, how could they not? Humans have been experiencing set backs in life since there were humans. We hopefully find ways to learn from what we consider negative experiences & move on. Fun thing about life, no one gets out unscathed.

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@AndroidCarlisle @LizzyStarrrdust Funniest thing I've heard all day.

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@LizzyStarrrdust I worked hard to teach my oldest how to not do this. He taught me that it's okay to do sometimes.

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@Aneka15amyth @SFTruth247 @LizzyStarrrdust Lol!

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@Aneka15amyth @SFTruth247 @LizzyStarrrdust Yup, they absolutely take all kinds of dedication and a discipline that is off the charts. Also a lot of time in the gym and training.

But that wasn't really the topic of conversation there. I was befuddled by the sudden pivot to UFC as the only concept of fighting.

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@SFTruth247 @Aneka15amyth @LizzyStarrrdust Lol, she meant actually fighting. Like dudes who mix it up on the weekends after working construction.

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@justalexoki Lol! You have taken over the internet.

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@ShadowyZephyr Good point

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@LizzyStarrrdust Yeah, totally normal. Also, seems to have a lot to do w/how touchy-feely your household & extended families was. Was there demonstrative affection in your home or were your family members reserved? Were the hugs & kisses only from mothers or did father's extend such affection?

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@DeanTTraining Good lord

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@queentoast45 Right up there with The Witch of Blackbird Pond.

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@StuartAC130 @CandiceHollaway @Ser_Kittenton You too, man.

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@DocMartinez2013 @theistinthought Well, less to worry about then! School's a process & honestly, they figure it out. I once got called in to discuss whether my youngest should move up to 4th grade. He was spending as much time on the floor, as he was spending sitting in his desk. Lol! They attune @ their own rate

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@DocMartinez2013 @theistinthought Kindergarten has more nakedness than the layman would predict, lol, no lie.

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@DocMartinez2013 @theistinthought Does he start this year?

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@StuartAC130 @CandiceHollaway @Ser_Kittenton I have a penchant for people who'd be described as "rangy". Think a basketball player who is now 50. Long muscles, w/a layer of fat over them. Honestly, I think Sam Elliott is the sexiest man ever & have for at least 30 years. Some of us truly just don't drool over super cut guys

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@StuartAC130 @CandiceHollaway @Ser_Kittenton Well, I can only speak for myself here. The version of taoki on the left is obviously muscular, but he seemed to have cut his body fat %in order to get to the pic on the right. So, there is my focus. I have never been attracted to body types like Harry Styles but ...