@gleeblebe2 OKAY YOUR LOSS HAVE FUN WORKING A BORING 9/5 WHEN YOU COULD HAVE RISEN TO FAME BOXING THE BEST FEMALE BOXER IN THE WORLD DO YOU EVEN HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MUCH WE WOULD HAVE MADE STREAMING THE FIGHT ON ALL SOCIAL PLATFORMS??? IM TALKING BIG MONEY GENERATIONAL WEALTH $$$
"i'm going to be dismissive and cruel to this mentally ill person and shame them when they're at their lowest and express judgemental disgust at the ugliness of their symptoms without any empathy" this is genuinely how ya'll be moving. disgusting doesn't even begin to cover it
i think most people don't understand (or bother to understand) mental illness cause they think it can be easily self-regulated/managed with medication and therapy. ofc, the goal + hope is to get better but the way some of ya'll treat someone suffering makes things worse for them
the profound suffering that one has to go through by such a young age to even end up with this disorder is what really gets me about people's apathy. you're judging people so harshly for their biological response to a world that has been nothing but cruel to them.
it hurt like hell to have people who I thought understood my condition turn on me for feeling too deeply. maybe I wasn't looking for help in the right place, but your judgment made it worse.
and this comes from a very personal place. I've been the person in those screenshots before & I'm not proud of it. it was toxic.
but people using my private breakdowns as public "proof" that I'm an evil manipulator who shouldn't be trusted felt like a knife.
I will always suggest people get a therapist and medication asap but it really doesn't hurt to have a strong support system too. the way ppl will ignore you during a breakdown or outright compare your conditions to laude themselves on their own "self control" is gross
the crazy thing about BPD is how you'd think you could rely on other people with it, but split in front of them one (1) time and suddenly it's all about how they manage their symptoms better and don't make "excuses" without ever considering that some people's is more severe
@gleeblebe2@LinkyMew YOUR LOSS ITS NOT EVERYDAY YOU GET THE HONOUR OF FIGHTING BECCA JAKE PAUL HAS BEEN WANTING TO GET A PIECE OF ME FOREVER BUT I KEPT TURNING HIS FIGHT OFFERS DOWN HES NOT REALLY MY TYPE
@gleeblebe2@LinkyMew TO MAKE IT WORTH YOUR WHILE £500 FOR THE WINNER AND ILL EBEN LET YOU THROW THE FIRST PUNCH SEE HOW GENEROUS I AM BETTER MAKE IT COUNT OR IT’LL BE YOUR LAST
the way people treat those that have bpd is terrible. if MH isn’t what they view as “acceptable” & “conventional” based on society standards, they literally call them evil. people lack any understanding of how personality disorders work & refuse to exercise an ounce of empathy