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[chlo @bpdblxe]

My anxiety stops me from doing so much and I hate it

[chlo @bpdblxe]

Boyfriend eats his kebab with NO SAUCE and I’ve never felt more ashamed

[chlo @bpdblxe]

Honestly I don’t understand how I can always be doing something wrong

[chlo @bpdblxe]

This is literally such a toxic and harmful thread. This is why people feel shame to say they have BPD, because misinformation like this gets spread around and it is harmful for us who do have it.

[Emerald Apple @AI_EmeraldApple]

Deme, the VTuber, has BPD, borderline personality disorder.

It's something I have relatively intimate knowledge of, as my sister has BPD, and I had a coworker whose wife has BPD.

They have intense, rapidly shifting emotions with fear of abandonment, along with huge defensive responses. They have the uncanny ability to always see themselves as the victim, no matter what the context is or the circumstances, and due to the impulsivity in their "defense," they can become quite unhinged.

People with BPD also have solidly black and white thinking, seeing the world in a us vs them mentality, which is how she can justify her vile attack against Chibi. These people practically never take accountability, fault, or anything, often blaming everyone else except themselves.

They will frequently engage in DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender). They will deny the wrongdoing and then attack the person raising the concern, often in a screaming, emotionally volatile tone, and then reverse the original instigator as the victim.

They can often "mask" their symptoms in a public setting for a while, often for many years, but after enough stressors mount, they crack and that mask slips off.

She can blame it all on PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) all she wants, but her behavior is textbook BPD... the same kind of toxic behavior my sister displayed, and the same stories from my coworker with the BPD wife.

Some of the stories include ones like the BPD wife intentionally harming herself, often seriously enough to be hospitalized, only to blame it on the husband, or even reframing it because the "husband" was emotionally abusive. Similarly, my sister has self-harmed on multiple occasions only to escape discipline from my parents, for fear she might escalate. My sister's husband was also blamed for all the "ruination" that "he" caused against her.

The coworker and my sister's husband both shared the same phenotype. Quiet, reserved, nice, and harmless... but you can tell behind all of it, they were deeply in love but also deeply scared of their spouse... not knowing when the next blowup is going to be.

The Simps for women with BPD can be just as toxic, as their pull during the good moments can be legitimately magnetic, and they form strong parasocial bonds with creators such as her. People with BPD, when they are happy, are very charismatic, charming, and very warm... almost a complete mirror reverse of the depth of their toxic downward spiral.

The simps become blinded by her toxic nature, reinforce her DARVO attacks, and so many idealize women with mental illnesses. "That crazy chic" is the trope that so much of the simp economy is catered to.

TLDR... Stay away from people with BPD. They are dangerous and will often ruin your life, even through a parasocial lens, and treatment often has limited success.

[chlo @bpdblxe]

Hate when my boyfriend falls asleep because no cuddles:(((

[chlo @bpdblxe]

@TayMack1994 I love you so much x

[chlo @bpdblxe]

Forever blessed I get to do life with my soulmate✨💕 (setting up our first record player)

[chlo @bpdblxe]

It sounds sad but there is always something in everyday life that reminds me how shit I feel about myself and how much I hate myself lol

[chlo @bpdblxe]

GOING TO MY FIRST EVER CONCERT NEXT YEAR TO SEE THIS BABE

[Gracie Abrams @gracieabrams]

Tour goes live today
(WHERE WILL I BE SEEING YOU???)
https://t.co/bay0OqceoM

[chlo @bpdblxe]

Moved with the love of my life and now we have our first little home together and I couldn’t be happier💕✨

[chlo @bpdblxe]

Healing with BPD is weird because progress sometimes looks like crying less aggressively instead of not crying at all

[chlo @bpdblxe]

Struggling with my depression at the moment, trying to pack up for moving next Friday all whilst I feeling physically unwell😩😩

[chlo @bpdblxe]

coming from such a dysfunctional family is painful

[chlo @bpdblxe]

10 days until we move from a flat into a house and I can’t wait and the fact I get to do it all with my soulmate makes it even better

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

princess treatment doesn’t mean he buys me whatever i want. it means he LISTENS. he PROTECTS. he LEADS. he is HUMBLE. He communicates. he doesn't let me go to sleep crying or upset. he doesn't makes me feel like i'm hard to love. he is my PEACE in chaos and my HOME.

[chlo @bpdblxe]

Going through things on my own makes me so angry and so hurt because I shouldn’t have to but yet I still do

[chlo @bpdblxe]

Happy 1st birthday to the goofiest, dopiest and softest girl I know (even though she can’t read) I love my Luna x she has the kindest soul x

[chlo @bpdblxe]

Boyfriend got me an iPad and now I’m an iPad kid🌚🤷🏻‍♀️

[chlo @bpdblxe]

In 5 weeks me and the loml are moving away into our first home together and I’m so excited and scared but I couldn’t be doing it with anyone better🏡👩🏻‍🤝‍👨🏼💕

[chlo @bpdblxe]

Boyfriends team won 4-0, he’s happy so I’m debating whether to take advantage of this and ask for back rubs👀