The hack to ordering from Temu, is holding a measuring tape or tape rule while you’re adding to cart. 🤣
Don’t look at the pictures, look for the one with dimensions e.g “70cm by 160cm” also take note of the metric.
Almost ordered a coffee table that would have looked like a stool, if I didn’t measure with my tape 🤣
Secondly, go through the image reviews. See pictures of how the item looks, in other people’s spaces. Idk about wears though but for any other house hold item. This is what I do.
There are so many voices telling you how to define your happiness. You have to fight for the autonomy to define it yourself. Always why your wants. That’s how you build a life that has you all over it. It doesn’t have to be perfect it just has to be yours.
the neurodivergent obsession with trying to figure out why someone did what they did. replaying it. analyzing it. asking your friends. asking your therapist. asking your friends again. because your brain literally cannot accept that some people are just cruel for no reason.
I finally understand what Machiavelli meant when he said, “Never play fair in a game where others cheat.” It doesn’t mean become evil. It means stop being naive. Stop bringing honesty to people who study manipulation, stop giving access to people who weaponize closeness, and stop expecting clean hands from people who already showed you they’ll throw dirt. Sometimes wisdom is not revenge. Sometimes wisdom is learning the rules of the room before the room uses your goodness against you.
I will never understand the point of this thought-process. You clearly weren't attracted to this man and you wouldn't be happy if you were currently married to him, so why do you care how his life is playing out?
I’ve always had this stance. Working is not my problem as far as I get value for my work and I live the lifestyle i want.
Sadly, Nigeria does not pay for value
Your heart is not a state secret. You are meant to declare allegiances. You are meant to have favourites. Write the letter. Miss the train. Stay up until dawn talking. You should be caught red-handed loving something, someone.