Watching someone’s insecurities and fears turn into self sabotage and ruin a connection with you in real time and knowing there’s nothing you can do to stop it is sad. You literally have to kinda let them lose you and grow/learn the hard way. Some lessons are best learned through experience.
i just feel like giving someone a chance who didn’t appreciate you multiple times is like crazy. like i don’t understand what’s not clicking but i also don’t understand why you’re acting like the sun rises and sets from their asshole. you can find somebody else.
I don’t want to be with anyone I’ve got to psychoanalyse. I need your behaviour to make sense to me immediately because it’s clear or you’re transparent. If my brain has gotta go to therapy mode, then I don’t want it.