An infant d!ed in their custody ! Omo
My heart is bleeding! It may be you next !
If you can’t lend your voice , please be quiet !
Repost and Lend your voice !
I’m not going to dabble too much into this ongoing matter because it’s religion-sensitive.
However, my dislike for polygamy started from my experience in secondary school.
My dad owned the school, and our termly tuition was just ₦5,700 around 2006/2007/2008.
I had classmates who were extremely brilliant but constantly struggled to pay their fees. There’s one particular family I can never forget.
They were about five siblings — very smart children — but their parents struggled financially. Why? Their mothers were wife numbers 3, 4, and I think 5. I learnt Alhaji was once a very wealthy businessman in my community. However, by the time the children of the third wife got to secondary school, old age had crept in and the business was no longer doing as well as before.
The children from the first two wives were already independent adults, but somehow, it seemed they didn’t support the education of their younger siblings.
I watched these classmates struggle throughout school. Many times, they attended classes and even wrote exams without paying their fees.
What pains me most is that two of them were exceptionally brilliant. I recently learnt that one of the girls only completed her NCE last year — about 14 years after writing WAEC.
I know nothing is assured, but please take caution while making decisions that could greatly impact your unborn children.
Still, I choose not to believe this is who we are at our core. I’ve seen too many Nigerians choose right, even when it’s hard.
How can we do better? How? Kai.
I watched this video and it just makes me sad.
Because you start to wonder where this is coming from? Survival? What people have seen work? Just no accountability anywhere?
I don’t think Nigerians are uniquely dishonest. People are people everywhere. But I also think we can’t ignore that something isn’t right because this shows up everywhere. I mean look at our leadership.
What exactly are these vendors smoking???? 😂😂😂😂
I order hair of 26” and paid in full but you said there was no 26” of the color I wanted the day you went to the market.
I said no wahala, buy the available one and that obviously means I have change left with you cause it’s not same price.
Oya send my change and you’re telling me this????
I don’t even know what to tell her, be like I dey dream oooo
I guess I’ll be that guy but..
If someone’s actions makes you become a shadow of yourself, it’s not something to be proud of or talk loudly about, it only means they won cos you becoming this flawed version of yourself won’t do anything to them, guess who it’ll affect, the next person you come across
Now I’m not saying peoples actions can’t affect you, no, but here’s the truth, people will always be people, they’ll hurt you, they’d move crazy, they’d project their insecurities on you, but it’s left for you and you alone to determine how this actions change the course of your life
Someone cheating on you shouldn’t make you trust less, shouldn’t make you a super detective, rather it should make you love yourself more. You gave someone your heart, that’s a very brave thing to do, they fumbled you, it has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with them
Go through the heartbreak, cry, take time away from relationships, heal but don’t let it change you. Meet someone new when you’re ready and if they seem genuine, trust again, with strong boundaries yes but trust again. This is the only way to find a healthy relationship or else you’d keep bleeding on people who never cut you and it’ll only chase them away or destroy you more. My thoughts though
As you may know, I stutter. So, two days ago, I coordinated a large press conference, and as one of the speakers (an older woman) read her speech, I noticed she stuttered too. I was elated to find someone just like me.
Later, I wanted to do a documentary interview with her...
Not trying to victim blame, but there’s a certain age you will reach I would expect that you will take responsibility of your life and do what is best for you and your future.
I understand being a foolish teenager but following a man blindly as a grown woman is lol….
The problem with this is how many times will you have to do it? So you observe one for 6 months, you don’t like so you move on. Another one for 4 months, etc.
And will you be okay to marry one that has cohabited with several people as well?
Above all, God is the wisest.
Just so you know, Cohabitation is a must for me.
I will never marry any woman until she has lived under my roof for at least 6 months to 1 full year. No shortcuts, no excuses.
This is how I protect our future. I need to see the real her every single day, not the weekend version, not the dating mask. I watch how she sleeps, when she wakes up. If she sleeps beyond 7am often, that's a hard red flag. Lazy woman ruins a home. I won't accept it.
I test our sexual compatibility the right way. No pretending, no surprises on the wedding night. I love sex and I expect us to have sex at least twice in a week not a woman that will be telling me "I'm not in the mood" or "I don't feel like".
I observe how she handles real disagreement and conflict. Does she stop cooking my food because she's angry? Does she lock me out of my own house because I came home late from work or hustle? Does she challenge my authority? I see everything. No hiding behind sweet talk or short visits.
Cohabitation exposes character. It separates serious wife material from time-wasters and pretenders. I don't marry blind. I guard my peace, my home, my life.
Above all, I love God.
From Benin City to Wall Street, Destiny’s story is one built on grit, purpose and excellence.
Today, he’s an M&A lawyer on Wall Street, carrying the weight of where he started into rooms where very few share his story.
Watch the full conversation here👇
https://t.co/8tNfuu3QB6
Record breaking ₦1.2 trillion per year in IGR earned by Lagos, and at least ₦705 billion of it comes from Salaried workers (PAYE), and yet the streets are pitch dark with little-to-no functional streetlights.
Again I ask, what does Sanwoolu actually do with all that money?
Lagos salaried workers paid ₦705.41 billion in taxes in 2024. In return, they got potholes, insecurity, and zero safety nets.
The government took that money and bought luxury cars and furniture.
Science says we need at least 4 basic elements to survive:
Water
Air
Food
Light
And look what the Bible tells us about Jesus:
I am the living water.
I am the breath of life.
I am the bread of life.
I am the light of the world.
Science was right, we need Jesus to live.