knowing your partner’s love language is VERY important. not listening to them when they tell you how they need to be loved will make them feel very neglected no matter how much you THINK you’re loving them. if it’s not their language, the love won’t be received how you want it
PAY ATTENTION check on y’all boyfriends and girlfriends ! If somebody sleeping all day, distancing they self, you notice a lack in interest in everything, they barely eating, they barely sleeping, they got that it is what it is mindset all the time, it’s something wrong !
i do this thing where i let texts pile up n i don’t respond to anyone for like days n then i get a burst of energy n reply to all of them at once as if nothing happened n then i ignore them again