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[b 🥀 @britt_donor]

i have a sandwich, where the is hell "world hunger"?? https://t.co/OG4hp96aWh

[Donald J. Trump @realDonaldTrump]

It's freezing outside, where the hell is "global warming"??

[Maria⁷ @MariaArtie]

We are Bulletproof: The Eternal FULL SONG

[shanika @shanikancita]

4 screenshots that made my frontal lobe develop faster (3 yrs ago)

[amorette 🐈‍⬛ @roguefeminism]

the fact that she only had to ask once

[victoria ♀️ @fatfabfeminist]

gestures that make you more elegant and feminine

[Ying | 莺 🍉 @ying_verse]

the west yearns for the siheyuan

[halsey @halsey]

I keep your lights on for years and this is the thanks I get?

[💕 Brittany Belle 💕 @BrittanyinTexas]

A powerful, unapologetic message from Bad Bunny, this is exactly what America needs to hear right now

[The Sigma Mindset @thesigmamindset]

Bro figured out life... 🔥🔥

[Pyrate @CEOLandshark]

I remember reading a classified booklet for Navy SEALs (I think?) on how to handle/survive in serious crisis situations. Like in a t3rror attack or finding yourself kidn4pped in a bunker or whatever.

The primary directive golden rule in a crisis/dire situation, it said, was to only focus on the next step - sometimes it's just surviving the next 10 seconds. Anything else can & will come after.

I believe this is almost always the case, it's just that when we're not under serious threat, we mistakenly think and feel as if we have all the time and resources to not be serious (illusion).

[Ashley Reese @offbeatorbit]

This was fun. I was able to process most of the 900 words per minute sentences too, which i didn’t expect at ALL.

[positivity moon @arrtnem]

Healthy is not quiet. It is two mugs sweating on a table at 22:04 while both of you decide whether to defend your pride or your future. It is dishes in the sink after a stupid fight about tone that is not about tone at all. It is the radiator ticking like a metronome for your breaths as you both refuse to slam a door. You love each other. You also roll your eyes. You also get bored. You also wake up at 3:11 and wonder who you are building with. Healthy is not the absence of friction. It is what your hands do with the heat.

You argue. Good. Raise the issue, not the volume. Say the exact thing. Tuesday, the message you didn’t answer, the joke that landed like glass in my teeth. Keep it small and true. Then stop. Drink water. Put your palms on the counter until the sparks in your chest cool by half a degree. Come back and use dates. Use verbs. I did. I will. I won’t. No courtroom. No closing statements. Two apologies that fit on a receipt.

Different opinions? Of course. That is why the house breathes. One of you trusts speed, the other trusts checks. One of you needs lists, the other needs a walk. Healthy is not forcing a match. It is drawing a map that holds both routes and choosing a meeting point at 19:30 with soup that forgives your day. Compromise looks like a calendar, not a surrender.

Frustration happens in fluorescent places. The grocery line that eats twenty minutes. The parking ticket on the damp windshield. The email that treats one of you like furniture. You feel the old script climbing your spine. You want to punish with silence. You want to win. Instead you count to eight. You name the weather inside you without throwing it like a plate. I am angry. I am scared. I am tired. You do not fix each other. You find a smaller problem and fix it together. The dripping tap. The trash. The bed.

Insecurity? Invite it in and feed it facts. Your voice shakes. You still tell me where it hurts. I show you the text before I send it because I want to be clean in your eyes. You tell me you need me to ask more and assume less. I tell you I need fewer jokes when I am raw. We both listen. We both try again badly, then better.

Boredom is not a verdict. It is a maintenance light. You do the unglamorous repairs. Walk the long block holding hands without talking. Swap phones and put the next date on both calendars. Learn one stupid dance in the kitchen at 20:12. Sit on the floor with your backs touching and read. Boredom leaves when investment arrives.

Healthy does not mean perfect. Perfect means this: when a challenge shows up, you choose to move through it together. You put the problem on the table like a broken hinge and both of you bring tools. You mind the exits but you do not run. You speak in present tense. You repair in the room where it broke. You keep a short memory for ego and a long memory for kindness. You go to bed on the same side you woke up on. You fall asleep with the argument smaller than the touch of your feet.

In the morning you make eggs and say the sentence that closes the loop. Thank you for staying with me last night. The coffee is a little burnt and perfect anyway. The day opens. The house breathes. You keep moving, not around the hard thing, through it, together.

[𝐁𝐈𝐆 𝐌𝐎 … @JaYunnaMonae]

Idk who needs to hear this but clean your home. I saw a Tik Tok video of a woman cleaning her home that said “taking care of what God has already given me, so he knows I appreciate and care for what’s to come. No matter where life takes you, you have to learn to take care of what he’s given you otherwise, he can’t give you more”.

This is your reminder 🤍

[President-Elect Toguro @PresidentToguro]

how a guy taking benadryl sees the world

[ᴘɪɴᴋᴋ ͙͘͡★ @oops_pinkk]

I remember I watched when they first met, literal soulmates

[Robert Irwin @RobertIrwin]

I will remember this night forever. This dance was a story of love, loss, grief and gratitude. It is a thank you message to my mum, it was to pay tribute to all the strong mothers of the world, and the single parents. I know my dad was with us, and can only imagine how proud he would be of my mum. This dance is for all of us, thank you for your support ❤️

[GINA NÄUMAN • جینا نعمان @entertheunseen]

The irony is, it actually takes going through hell and back to develop the ability to stay levelheaded and not miserable. You do not know the wars I have seen, the demons I have fought, the rage I am still taming — to learn to be this committed to peace.

[kendall @internetfairie]

ever since i was a little girl i have loved staying up really late hanging out with myself and thinking about stuff and things

[Rihanna @rihanna]

#R20