don’t be surprised when the career, the partner, the income, and the peace all arrive at the same time. you’re stepping into your “everything at once” season. the moment life catches up to the version of you that you’ve been growing into
I won’t let anyone gaslight me into thinking intellectual mismatch is not a thing in romantic relationships. It’s not even about formal degrees or booksmarts. It shows up in things like curiousity, conversational depth, imagination, openness, and worldviews.
I have great relationships with men because I put them in positions they can handle, and use them for what they want to be used for.
If that man says he loves to fix things, let him fix things. If that man only wants to have sex, well he’s a sex toy. That man wants to be quiet, well go ghost.
And even with this practice, I will leave and focus on myself when I don’t care for the exchange.
"You hate AI because it's going to replace you" Actually, I hate genAI because it is built off of stolen data, it breaks copyright laws, it's poisoning the planet & black communities. It's raising our electricity bills. It's spreading misinformation & making people fucking stupid