It's understandable that your actions are influenced by your past experiences, but it's important to recognize that they shouldn't serve as excuses for your behavior.
Bandsplaining
/ˈbandsplāniNG/
noun INFORMAL
the explanation of a band that’s been years by a younger generation, typically to an order generation, in a manner regarded as condescending or patronizing trying to gaslight you in thinking they discovered the said band.