@Jotterstan@Sabrina45X Thats not how its seen by a lot of people and op had a strong reaction because they know it as a strong word i just dont understand why theyre being dog piled for no reason
@dig6394@lily72177495@Sabrina45X It means more than just stop ands isnt appropriate to be used during cuddles pls stop being dense. You dont understand social cues. And its very tone deaf to call someone dangerous over something so menial, and its genuinely making me uncomfortable
@dig6394@Holivenchura@Nyan_Katsumi@soundvuitex Moved goalposts. We were talking about why the person had an emotional reaction to the words which was exactly because people *know* the general meaning of the word and are familiar with its usage. Again, a simple google search can show this
@dig6394@Holivenchura@Nyan_Katsumi@soundvuitex Words have meanings brother in Christ and some have stronger meanings. it doesnโt just mean stop it means hard stop which can illicit an emotional reaction. I cannot explain in any simpler terms. Yknow what dont reply to me anymore im uncomfortable. Safeword.
@dig6394@Holivenchura@Nyan_Katsumi@soundvuitex No one is stopping anyone from saying no whenever they want to?? But a safeword does come with a meaning. If you dont want something say no, if youโre deeply uncomfortable and hurting say safeword. Its simple.
@dig6394@Holivenchura@Nyan_Katsumi@soundvuitex the word originated from hardcore bdsm and thats how it is interpreted by people familiar to those communities. Its easy to understand the emotional reaction.
@Jotterstan@Sabrina45X Its not โstigmatizingโ its just how the word is generally interpreted. It originated from hardcore bdsm and cnc to mean โim deeply uncomfortable and hurtingโ and anyone who cares about their partner would have an emotional reaction to that statement
@dig6394@Holivenchura@Nyan_Katsumi@soundvuitex Why should there be??? The word was originally used during cnc play where a normal no/stop wouldnt suffice. If a no is enough to make them stop why would you use a safeword??
@Jotterstan@Sabrina45X If its not a really bad situation or a hard stop for cnc, wouldnt a simple no suffice? Hard stop because youโre uncomfortable is the original usage of the word, idk if it has changed
The frolicking would be cuter if he didnโt have 2 biological children actively being held hostage by his insane father who are also facing an imminent war which his actions indirectly started ๐
No wonder GRRM called Rhaegar "love-struck" years ago. He madly loved her,wanted to remove his claim to throne, didn't care about prophecy in the end and all he wanted to do was stay with Lyanna in Tower of Joy and focus on their love and frolic like below๐ญโค๏ธ