People assume your soft heart and gentleness must have come from an easy life. They don't know you walked through the darkness alone & transformed your wounds into wisdom, your pain into power, the mistreatment of others into boundaries, & your generational curses into blessings.
sometimes when people hurt my feelings all i can think is i’m literally so soft, kind, sweet, delicate and angelic to you — how could you do that to me. 🥹
Document your life, very well. Write down your feelings. Take pictures of the things that moved you. Archive yourself. Let them know that you were here, that you existed, that you lived. Despite it all.
A season of solitude is beautiful not lonely — because it gives you space to reconnect with you, to nourish the relationship you have with yourself and to cultivate your mind with out excessive external influence and noise.
i have no desire to live alone. i love being alone and can spend awhile in silence but what do you mean there’s no cuddles or someone to eat with? no. i don’t like this. that would get old after one month. don’t do this to me.
& i want you all to know, this isn’t asking for too much. it isn’t hard for someone to let you know they’re thinking of you. so if they aren’t letting you know… take that for what it is. especially if that type of gesture is what you desire from a partner. why settle for crumbs.
Believe me when I say, there will come a time in your life when people will regret the way they treated you. Even if they never apologize, they’ll reflect on all the damage they caused you.
Man to man, I highly encourage you to find out what areas in life your girl is boujie in. Dudes assume if shorty not into designer she not bougie. Some women are food boujie. Some are travel boujie. Some are only boujie on holidays, etc. That’s something you gotta investigate 😂