I talked about this before but I once read a Chinese fic that explored this question and the reasoning it gave made so much sense to me that it became my HC as well. You can read it here and some choice screenshots:
https://t.co/llESj1vwUx
i believe seokjin is truly a good person bc you dont go from 20 yo college student, youngest of the family to sharing a dorm w 6 other boys & deciding he’ll help them eat better, keep things in check, and offer a positive mindset all while he’s working hard as idol & uni student
the way i read gojos 'trauma' is less the fandom speculation of depressive breakdowns and abusive parents and more *how* he was shown dealing with the aftermath of toji, through intensive and focused work 🧵