“Can I do it?” is a terrible measure of disability.
Yes, I can do it.
Can I do it repeatedly?
Can I do it safely?
Can I do it without support?
Can I do anything afterwards?
Can I do it tomorrow too?
What does doing it COST?
These tell me a lot more about my capability.
@billcipherlover I was genuinely convinced this post wasn't satire for a minute because my ex actually caused me to break up with him because his f/o was a bigger part of his life than I was and more ppl knew he was with his f/o than that he was with me 😭