Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said,
One of the signs of someone who truly knows Allah is that they don't grieve over what they lose, nor do they become overly happy with what they gain.
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Don’t fail yourself and most importantly, don’t fail your family. Every move you make, pray to Allah to protect you so that you will be safeguarded from the disgrace of the Hereafter and that of this world.