I used to believe this until people told me how I acted in a very bad season of my life. was completely oblivious to my own behavior. some people will treat you how they feel about themselves/the path they’re on, & what they believe they deserve.
all that to say though, you don’t have to tolerate it if you don’t want too. doesn’t really matter what the reason is. if you’re being treated poorly & want to leave, not extend grace or understanding, that’s your right. you also don’t have to sit and decipher their behavior!
it's really important to break this habit. i'm not kidding when i say being codependent on someone to function will not only break you, it will inveitably break that connection too
Get addicted to neuroplasticity, subconscious reprogramming, delusional optimism, game theory, quantum physics, cognitive biases, systems thinking, epigenetics, and first-principles thinking. I promise it will change your life.
i know fauda is israeli propaganda but it really shows how one organized entity always has an advantage over multiple entities sharing the same goals, too many cooks do spoil the broth i guess.