How to spot a narcissist (or anyone who is not safe):
Talk about how you feel.
If they deny your reality, reject how you feel, or blame you for having emotions—you now have awareness.
Safe people can cope with uncomfortable emotions and situations.
@KrangTNelson I'm just saying Commander is a good boy with a very important job and if he doesn't like or trust those agents maybe none of us should either.
boy math is when he does the oil changes and snow shoveling and she does the cooking and laundry and he decides they have equal workloads because they both do two chores
I know a lot of younger folks are afraid of aging out of your hobbies and interests when you reach your 30s but what you really should be afraid of is acid reflux