The autistic urge to spend hours playing The Sims, specifically: building an immaculate house and designing beautiful people to live in it, then swiftly abandoning said house and said people the minute they move in (unless you’re a gameplay gamer).
one of my biggest toxic traits is that when i'm going through something, i tend to stop talking to everyone until i'm okay. when i'm okay i'll start communicating againg like nothing happened. it's not me being off with you, i just deal with things better when i'm alone
Listen. People that are child free are not obligated to work a non-equitable number of holidays that are perceived to be family-centric.
*I* will likely offer to work them, but I am under no obligation to do so because I chose to not procreate. Don’t expect it. 😡
you just want someone to notice. someone to see the weight you carry on your back and say let me help you. let me take some of that off. you just want them to look you in your eyes & say “thank you for loving me as deeply as you have, i don’t take it for granted” & show you that.