It actually takes real courage to end up with a soulmate. A lot of people nowadays are only interested in what’s easier + convenient + what looks good rather than checking in with who’s aligned with them spiritually. It takes strength to be with the person you really love.
Imagine finding friendship and love in the same person. Dating someone who befriends you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, makes you feel safe, grows with you, heals with you, and breaks toxic patterns with you >>>
it takes a tremendous amount of courage to continue to be gentle and soft even after you are hurt and mishandled. be proud of your ability to express your care
do u really, truly, genuinely, deep in ur heart think that the same person who had u up crying at night, scrambling for an explanation as to how they could treat u so horribly and as if ur undeserving of BASIC human decency is like...ur destiny? that’s ur king? ur future? fuck no