i'm the person who says "for what?" when someone apologizes because some people say sorry just to shut you up. i want you to acknowledge exactly what you did
Especially when you’re a good person. They love how it feels to be genuinely valued by you until receiving your energy requires responsibility and accountability.
The more self-regulated you become, the more you realize that communicating your feelings isn’t an emergency. You can sit with it. Sleep on it. Let the wave pass. You don’t have to rush into expression just because the emotion feels loud.1/2
If you're someone who likes depth. You're more prone to attracting avoidants. They'll bring intellect & at first it'll feel like you're compatible. Until you realise you're engaging with a mind but the heart is in lockdown. Remember one sees you. The other just studies you.
When the DG of the NLS was giving her speech and referenced or acknowledged her husband did you see that smirk or smile on her cheeks?
When the now, 33rd President elect of the NBA won the election, did you see that hug of warmth and kiss she shared with her husband?
Now where am I driving to?
2 things:
1. Marriage is such a beautiful thing when two people with brains in their heads decide to do it.
2. These women said they want to fly and their husbands said “how high?”
Do with this message what you would.