i cant deal w/ people who aren’t solution oriented bc they will ask u for advice knowing they enjoy complaining and being in distress. which is fine if thats ur vibe but just say that
i used to hate the fact that i was “boring” but every time i try to be out & about doing what people deem as “fun” i end up stressed & drained asf. ive come to realize for me personally being “boring” is the only way to stay sane lol