Psst... any relationship that can be ruined by a thoughtful conversation about how you feel and what you need doesn’t have long-term stability or potential anyway
@TheJohnShearin @LeilaHormozi@bumble Hey John, do you know the same dread you have the girl may have too? Just ask her out, and figure out the chemistry after you meet up.
Sit with your negative emotions and accept things you don’t want have already happened; knowing you have a choice to do it differently in the future is better than wasting time feeling bad, self-blame and let it ruin your life even further.
What we think is reasonable only represent our past experiences and the script we are accustomed to. A common mistake we all make is when someone doesn’t do things that fit in to our expectations we misinterprete their motives.