ppl don’t like assertiveness bc if you’re clear with them then that means they have to be clear and direct with themselves. and too many ppl are in a constant state of self avoidance. so passivity is more comfortable
i don’t really wanna see any of the “you never know what people are going through” discourse today because, in all honesty, y’all aren’t any kinder when you do.
Healing showed me how soft I am & how much I value softness. I’m soft yet strong, softness is my strength. I dont want to keep proving how resilient I am, I just want to be soft at all times. My soul craves a soft life, a soft love. Now I know I can only thrive when I can be soft
I’m always very mindful of how I speak to someone when I’m upset, I make sure there is still respect. I never forget things people say to me in their anger. some people say rude and terrible things and words are powerful, they can leave scars and imprints on the mind.
one thing I dislike about the prevalence of social media is how normalised the filming of strangers is. when not done for safety reasons, uploading photos and videos of them without prior consent is so jarring to me.
I realized that a lot of adults are healing their inner child and that’s one of the reasons why i don’t make fun of people who have “childish” hobbies. Some people didn’t get to have a childhood until they became adults.
Y’all want to be toxic soooo bad. Meanwhile, I’m tryna get rid of every toxic trait in me.I don’t wanna talk harsh, fight ,question your statements, disrespect, nor act nonchalant with my significant other.Being toxic only drains the good out of you.I wanna be able to communicate