one thing i’ve learned as a human on this planet is that most people have an inner hater inside of them they can’t kill. it’s really sad how they let jealousy consume them and always have to do backhanded ass compliments. yes i’m getting weirdly specific for a reason.
The fact is that even after so many years, you're not used to it. You don't know what to expect the next month, especially if you experience cramps. This month it might come with diarrhea and vomiting, the next month might be depression and insanely excruciating pain.
My first step to almost completely eliminating Amazon purchases from my life was switching the way I search: instead of hopping on BezosMart for every little thing, I Google it + "near me." Now I'm building loyalty to local businesses and familiarizing myself with their products.
An emotionally intelligent man would understand the reason women might not be used to emotionally intelligent men is due to the violence of patriarchy, misogyny, sexism, rather than harshly simplify it to “don’t sit in front of me if you not used to niggas expressing themselves”
being used for intimacy is a very real thing. it happens in friendships a lot, but also relationships. I’m talking about people who use others as free therapists to offload, but then withdraw, ignore or get irritable when their ‘free therapists’ want to talk about how they feel.
My great grandma poisoned her abusive husband. She had six kids starting at 13, and he had beat her brutally the whole time. When she turned 21, he came down with "fevers" and there were no autopsies in rural mexico. She never remarried and lived to be 112.
Why y’all mad she’s saying the names of grown 35-50 yr old men who in her DMs saying “congrats”? She’s 20, their names being disclosed shouldn’t be a problem as long as they don’t have ill, creepy intentions right..🙃🙃🙃