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6b4t .染勿关直接ban /反跨/记录成长&run日过程/ 锁推可能会被ban 如有误伤女权姊妹，请私信/男，驴，爱男姐看我发的推默认把一辈子财富好运都转给姥姥我👏/二极管思维者勿扰/已润

[🦁 @catfansss]

保持快乐的方法是从不overthinking 保持高配得感 🥰

[FeminismPedia 女性健康小百科 @CapybaraHa84396]

薯饼女士分享了家族女性故事：曾经勇敢逃婚的姐姐是怎么被转变成了追蝻宝生三胎的“怪物”？

“她原本有一条自己想走的路，可最后被莫名奇妙推向了婚育那条路。她当时面临的关卡堪比无限流的恐怖游戏，她没有成功通关，最终留在了那个世界，自己也变成了怪物。”
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[林由我 @YouwoLin]

推荐运动启动困难的姊妹试试Walk at home，YouTube搜关键词walking workout，视频10-30分钟都有，动作简单，做起来也不怎么累，适合边看剧边跟着动，这样不需要额外留时间去运动，容易执行。比如下面这个：https://t.co/BGnJGDRhSP

[8利9刃6磐4石 @lmsbys]

社会上流传最广的是女性25岁之后就要做皮肤抗衰，要做医美，要化粧美甲等。

而对女性老年健康真正重要的【肌肉与骨密度积累】却鲜为人知，很少被提及。

[Layla @layla8964]

年度总结之二。

来日本于我来说，等于一场真正意义上的重生。
重生在哪里？在认知结构以及对人生“可能性”的想象力。
如果没来日本，我大概率会 ended up：
回县城找份“稳定”的工作，按部就班过着柴米油盐的轨道式人生；或是在一二线城市进入一家外表商业化、内核却是行政化逻辑运作的组织——
在那里，市场机制被弱化、竞争被形式化、业务逻辑常常让位于层级、资历、服从。
时间被消耗在无止境的人情世故中。
那样的生活会把可能性磨平——人生仿佛一眼望到头。

真正改变我的，是东京这座城市给的“另一种可能性”。

刚来时做 retail，只能看到“消费者”这一端。
每天对着商品、客人、业绩，当时以为商业世界就是“卖东西 → 赚一点利润”。

后来在外资做 B2B 顾问，第一次看见了“产品背后的世界”：
它如何被立项、如何被推进、预算如何分配、以及一场决策是怎样从会议室走到现实。
过去看不见的逻辑，在那时一点点显形——
商业不只是表面买卖，而是一个立体结构。

但真正把我的认知彻底拆开再重组的，是后来进入 startup 做管理职能：
战略不是规划，而是融资条款写的；
组织不是设计出来的，而是 runway 倒计时逼出来的；
组织在扩张时，如果没有同步补齐 C-suite，权责、决策与资源分配都会失衡，这种结构性的缺口本身就会持续制造 toxicity；
薪水不是来自利润，而是作为固定成本每年提前在预算里严格分配；
不盈利也能开高薪，因为不看profit而看growth；
Tech 与 Biz 之间永远存在权力拉扯；
很多“愿景”不是信念，而是 pitch deck 的内容。

我的世界观就在一次次位置的转换中，被拆掉、重建、再拆掉、再重建。

也正因为经历了这些，我才意识到：
原来人真的可以活在“既定剧本”之外。
人生不是被动接受安排，而是由一次次自主选择构成的认知跳层。
而每一次跳层都会对应一个更大的世界。

与“一眼望到头”的人生相比，我如今站的位置、见过的人、理解过的逻辑，
共同构成了属于我的——

重生。

[🦁 @catfansss]

@w8i9t6c4h @hezhao0915 姐妹 原视频有地址吗 我去看看

[89林6陰4 @kimorihanakage]

space时间暂定12/27 日本时间晚8:00 （20:00）

讲讲今年进到建筑行业之后的一波三折

研修期间内耗的一些感悟

处理职场歧视的心得

有时间还可以讲讲我今年悟出来一些新的道理

和身体健康保健品相关

到时候有问题可以直播时候问 有回放 麻烦帮忙转发扩散

https://t.co/kRJBvKt13H

[🦁 @catfansss]

@w8i9t6c4h 哈哈我是发现我身体上受不了苦，我心理觉得还好但是身体就会用发烧来提醒我超负荷了

[🦁 @catfansss]

休息可耻是老钟高中训练出的争分夺秒的内卷价值观。为了身体健康和生活平衡就应该多休息。即使是中文圈、像中国人那么紧绷的国家其实很少。新加坡人马来人台湾人也比较松弛的。更别说其他欧美国家。做事情我觉得不能用恐惧驱动，而是热爱驱动更好。（可能和原博主内容不相关只是刷到关于休息的讨论有感

[🦁 @catfansss]

@eelreb 恭喜🎉🎊

[Dr.Lynne @_Lynne____]

被姐妹转了所以回味了一下我原始的那串推。
一年多过去，我已经完全可以接受自己大量时间用来休息了，主要是因为正视了十几年的高强度学习带给我身体的巨大伤害，去看GP按时吃药慢慢治愈。
从前我或许觉得可以靠坚强的意志爬着也要前进，现在发现腰椎颈椎都不行了爬一下膝盖都会响哈哈哈

[爱男TV @DxFyCOPqOP21835]

别的不说现在女的身体根本不适合生孩子把，并发症一堆。你要是单身生育我不评价，渡死劫下个别人家的崽是什么意思，做慈善吗

[🦁 @catfansss]

@GloriaWayne12 我直接按户口所在地办的 小红书应该有办上海居住证的教程

[🦁 @catfansss]

最近这几天在搜集相关日本反签的信息

不得不说你国户籍制度真的太恶心了，深深感觉自己就是二等公民

按长居地办签证要提供居住证，居住证要先有满六个月的居住登记，且社保不能代替居住登记，居住登记集体宿舍需公司出具证明同意。每一步都把人卡得很恶心。公司不配合就办不下来。

[J.K. Rowling @jk_rowling]

I'm seeing quite a bit of comment about this, so I want to make a couple of points.

I'm not owed eternal agreement from any actor who once played a character I created. The idea is as ludicrous as me checking with the boss I had when I was twenty-one for what opinions I should hold these days.

Emma Watson and her co-stars have every right to embrace gender identity ideology. Such beliefs are legally protected, and I wouldn't want to see any of them threatened with loss of work, or violence, or death, because of them.

However, Emma and Dan in particular have both made it clear over the last few years that they think our former professional association gives them a particular right - nay, obligation - to critique me and my views in public. Years after they finished acting in Potter, they continue to assume the role of de facto spokespeople for the world I created.

When you've known people since they were ten years old it's hard to shake a certain protectiveness. Until quite recently, I hadn't managed to throw off the memory of children who needed to be gently coaxed through their dialogue in a big scary film studio. For the past few years, I've repeatedly declined invitations from journalists to comment on Emma specifically, most notably on the Witch Trials of JK Rowling. Ironically, I told the producers that I didn't want her to be hounded as the result of anything I said.

The television presenter in the attached clip highlights Emma's 'all witches' speech, and in truth, that was a turning point for me, but it had a postscript that hurt far more than the speech itself. Emma asked someone to pass on a handwritten note from her to me, which contained the single sentence 'I'm so sorry for what you're going through' (she has my phone number). This was back when the death, rape and torture threats against me were at their peak, at a time when my personal security measures had had to be tightened considerably and I was constantly worried for my family's safety. Emma had just publicly poured more petrol on the flames, yet thought a one line expression of concern from her would reassure me of her fundamental sympathy and kindness.

Like other people who've never experienced adult life uncushioned by wealth and fame, Emma has so little experience of real life she's ignorant of how ignorant she is. She'll never need a homeless shelter. She's never going to be placed on a mixed sex public hospital ward. I'd be astounded if she's been in a high street changing room since childhood. Her 'public bathroom' is single occupancy and comes with a security man standing guard outside the door. Has she had to strip off in a newly mixed-sex changing room at a council-run swimming pool? Is she ever likely to need a state-run rape crisis centre that refuses to guarantee an all-female service? To find herself sharing a prison cell with a male rapist who's identified into the women's prison?

I wasn't a multimillionaire at fourteen. I lived in poverty while writing the book that made Emma famous. I therefore understand from my own life experience what the trashing of women's rights in which Emma has so enthusiastically participated means to women and girls without her privileges.

The greatest irony here is that, had Emma not decided in her most recent interview to declare that she loves and treasures me - a change of tack I suspect she's adopted because she's noticed full-throated condemnation of me is no longer quite as fashionable as it was - I might never have been this honest.

Adults can't expect to cosy up to an activist movement that regularly calls for a friend's assassination, then assert their right to the former friend's love, as though the friend was in fact their mother. Emma is rightly free to disagree with me and indeed to discuss her feelings about me in public - but I have the same right, and I've finally decided to exercise it.

[🦁 @catfansss]

@Ha89ppy_ha64na 同意 感觉TED更能看下去

[🦁 @catfansss]

@askaiwy 太搞笑了

[🦁 @catfansss]

@eelreb 提交了的话应该就快了！

[Sagêr Gyaebo ♂⚖️ 萨格杰布 @SagerRgyalpo]

英国伦敦地铁宣传海报，宣称男凝等于性骚扰。