Women are attracted to men with hobbies because when we see you patiently fiddling with something time consuming, temperamental, expensive and pointless we think to ourselves “oh, but I’M-
This idea that you need to be obsessed and give up everything in order to be great is simply not accurate.
When your identity becomes completely entangled in a single pursuit some combination of depression, anxiety, and unethical behavior almost always follow.
craziest thing a person has said to you. i’ll go first. a gemini man said to me months after breaking up with me “i wish i got you pregnant so i’d have a reason to see you and have access to you for the rest of my life”. ok your turn.
This week, a producer actually said to my face, "You need more white representation in your project. You're going to lose the white audience." Should've heard the way I laughed.
@PeskyBingers@andrewmweller@OffGuardian0@chantz_y Have you ever idk been to a hospital. It’s so funny have you ever seen a surgeon, nurse, doctor perform a procedure perhaps. Did you think the masks were just there for fun?
it’s not cute to act cold. it’s not cool to pretend you don’t give a fuck about someone you actually love. it’s not cool to treat them like that either. “going cold” isn’t cool. it’s a turn off. show up for the relation or don’t.
aye, just apologize when you know that you fucked up. how you gone be mad at a person for being mad at you when they have a legit reason to be, that’s just weird shit.. people love to say they grown until it’s time to hold they self accountable