Worst thing ever when someone knows you are a trans and starts allyplaining to you in that specific way that implies that they conceive of trans people in that queer nonbinary transmasc/fem bxdies framework way
you can say something like “trans men are the same gender as cis men” and the stupidest people on earth will start calling you a terf or radfem or transphobic
im lowkey addicted to lurking on r/transmanlifehacks every post is like 'constantly misgendered- any tips on passing? (no hrt and my hair bleeds if I cut it)' then they attach a selfie that looks like this