UPDATE: Esta mañana nos comunicamos con una persona que nos dió información de que Ganjah fue atropellada, fallecida al instante del impacto. Agradezco a todes les que han compartido y regado la voz. Vale mucho para mi que hayan tratado esta emergencia con tanta importancia.
The term “Rest in Power” was made for Black people who were killed unlawfully, not for a woman who sat on a throne made from blood diamonds stolen from the countries her family brutalised for centuries
a trauma bond is a pattern of abuse. it’s a cycle of intense praise/affection which turns into emotional or physical ‘punishment’ - positive reinforcement then devaluation, and it repeats. it’s not when people bond or connect by speaking about their separate or shared trauma.
MY ADVICE FOR WOMEN WHO CAN'T ORGASM DURING SEX:
NEXT TIME YOU AND YOUR MAN ARE HAVING SEX AND Y'ALL BEEN GOING STRONG FOR 30 MINUTES WITH NO ORGASM FOR YOU AT ALL.....
TELL HIM YOU HAVE TO USE THE BATHROOM, TAKE A SHOWER THEN GO IN THE KITCHEN AND MAKE YOU SOME COFFEE.....