y’all don’t understand sexyy red cuz y’all didn’t go to a high school where a girl wearing cookie monster pajamas and eating hot cheetos would get into a fight at 7:45am
Don’t borrow shame from the past. You are not that person anymore and you simply didn't know better. No reason to beat yourself up for it. All you can do is really do better.
Parental “sacrifice” is just a myth. A child's wellbeing is actually a parent's responsibility and not a favour. Any sacrifice is yours to bear, not theirs to repay.
Raise them fully cognizant of your challenges but know that it's duty, not charity.