@NasheCeezet_zw I'll say it over and over again.
Love is not a feeling or emotion. Love is a decision and a commitment to that decision.
That is what love is.
Do not ignore me. You can tell me you don't want to talk. You can tell me you need space. Whatever the case may be. Radio silence is a hard limit for me. It touches a very vulnerable place in me.
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence.. The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.
It is not bad to change prayers from “if he’s not for me remove him from my life” to “Lord, I want him, but not just as he is. If he is meant for me, shape him and shape me so we meet each other in the way You designed. Align his heart with Yours, and mine as well.”