Years of trapped trauma can make you feel like you don’t really fit in anywhere emotionally, or like your teenager years were stolen from you, so sometimes you still feel like a kid, but also pain has aged you, so now you must go back in time if you want to move forward.
All u gotta do is get so deviously betrayed and bamboozled 1 time in ur life of purity to change the entire trajectory of ur relationships to any human ever
In a healthy relationship, your partner hears you out if you’re upset, and their goal is to avoid upsetting you in the future, not debate whether you should have been upset in the first place, or make you feel as though your emotional experience is wrong.