Bpd love is on a whole other level. Intense as fuck. We love with every fiber of our being. We give our souls to strangers. We empty our heart out to help others. We pour from a cup that's empty. We always have more to give. It's why we're so easily taken advantage of
We worry about someone who has a serious problem with alcohol, drugs , eating disorder.
The fact is we cannot do anything for them. We can love them and have hope, but I was taught in recovery that parents, siblings etc, are enablers. We have to stope being an enabler and as hard as it will be, cut them off. Kindness doesn't work, they do nothing but self loathe and blame everything on someone else. Cut them off and just pray for them to seek help. Its ok to do so and love them still. ❤️
#KeepSteppin
Truth be told, some people are so irreplaceable. The things they do, the way they go extra miles to get things done for you, the way they always support, the kindness they show, the feelings they had for you; you may never experience it again for the rest of your life.