Reckless Ben reveals he has been silenced by the courts and cannot post part 3 of his series covering the Bricks and Minifigs allegations.
"I can't post it, or I will go to jail" [..] "I will immediately lose my lawsuit"
@karenmitchell__ It makes me sad to see people associate themselves with how dark personalities are when they clearly aren’t ones and once again are blaming themselves and battling shame and grief when that alone shows they’re not at all the same 💔
I often hear people comment that it must be a dark life for human predators, not experiencing joy or love or other emotions like we do. Nothing could be further from the truth. Human predators believe they are superior to others because of the absence of fear. While they do not experience emotions like we do, they get a huge amount of satisfaction from controlling, deceiving, and destroying others. They are profoundly satisfied with being the puppet master, the secret exploiter. If they could change, they would choose not to. Never feel sorry for them. That’s what they want. They would destroy you in a heartbeat and get enormous satisfaction from it.
Stay vigilant, stay strong.
When I fought for 5 years to make it mandatory for judges in Canada to take sexual assault law training, this is what I hoped for. All rape cases should be presided over w this level of awareness. An inspiring judge. Wish they were all like this.
Victims of narcissists/psychopaths (human predators) go through a process I refer to as ‘recalibration’ after they deeply ‘see’ the true nature of the narcissist/psychopath.
Recalibration involves mentally replaying and reviewing past situations, conversations, circumstances, interactions, other points of engagement with the narcissist/psychopath in light of the realisation that the human predator has two distinctly different sides to them. One side is the fake ‘normal’ side that the victim has been relating to (and which is only an act).
One side (which the victim sees just prior to recalibration) is severely dishonest and without any respect for laws, rules, agreements, moral principles or codes of any kind. This is the real nature of the predator.
Recalibration does not just happen in intimate partner relationships either. It could be a friend, relative, doctor, cult leader, accountant…
The victim replays situations and questions everything during the period of recalibration. Did that really happen as the human predator said it did? Were they really at that place then? What was really motivating them during this situation? Was that other person in on it too? Were they with the people they said they were with during that weekend? Did they actually do what they said they were going to do then? Did they know that they were hurting me when they did that? Where were they during that time really? Were they really abused as a child as they said they were or is that just a story they made up to suck me in? When did they first start targeting me? So that might not have been a coincidence when that happened? The questions are endless.
Recalibration is often a sickening and highly distressing process as the victim starts to uncover what has really been going on in the dynamic/relationship between themselves and the human predator.
Sometimes the recalibration process may last for years. The victim may continue to have (distressing) lightbulb moments where they realise something that was said by the human predator was untrue and something completely different was going on than what they understood.
@karenmitchell__ I find it so interesting (and false) when those academics say psychopaths are just impulsive, because premeditated is a better representation of what they’re like… exactly, they’re strategic and long-term plan. They are intentionally misleading us 💯
3 CRUCIAL things academics got WRONG about narcissists, psychopaths (dark personalities)….
FICTION 1.
- The academics say psychopaths are grandiose, which means they make themselves appear more important, impressive, or sophisticated than they really are.
REALITY
- Psychopaths which are not as bright and have impulse control problems pretend to be more accomplished than they are but, of course, many psychopaths are religious leaders, teachers, CEOs, judges, pilots etc and so do not need to be grandiose because they are seen to have a successful life.
FICTION 2.
- Academics insist psychopaths are impulsive. World psychopath expert, Dr. Robert Hare includes impulsiveness as a core attribute of psychopaths in his assessment tool, the PCL-R.
REALITY
- Of course, higher functioning dark personalities are not impulsive at all. Many are quite strategic and are excellent at long-term planning
FICTION 3.
- The academics insists that a subset of dark personalities have “everyday sadism”. They say that psychopaths, narcissists & Machiavellians are not sadistic.
- My research, based on over 1000 years of cumulative experience of practitioner experts, both inside and outside the prison system, with dark personalities and their victims, indicates ALL narcissists, psychopaths and Machiavellians are sadistic. They enjoy demeaning, disadvantaging, humiliating, destroying, hurting, and misleading others.
This is Dr Robert Hare, world expert on psychopaths.
He developed the Psychopathy Checklist in the 1980s and the PCL-R, a tool to diagnose psychopaths. The PCL –R is now the most commonly used tool in the world to assess psychopaths.
The tool though does not contain the attributes of “control” or “sadism”. This to me is unbelievable because these are the two biggest drivers of dark personalities or human predators!!
The PCL – R focuses on impulsive, violent criminal offenders yet Hare’s been trying for decades to have it applied in workplaces and family violence too. This is useless because it’s not nuanced enough. Retrofitting a tool developed from violent criminal offender prison populations onto higher functioning human predators that are CEOs, lawyers, doctors, academics, is never going to expose them.
Hare has dominated and manipulated the global landscape for research into dark personalities/human predators ever since he developed the PCL-R in the 1980s. He has gone as far as litigate against colleagues who tried to argue that it wasn’t an appropriate tool for higher functioning dark personalities!!
Those who follow me, what do you notice about Hare?
“Storms out” when she just eloquently walks away 😂 are people not allowed to calmly remove themselves from a situation anymore without being villainized??
Stabbed/suffocated his kids (5, 8, & 10). Posed their bodies on his couch, fled for 10 days.
BC granted him a discharge. He was sorry for an outburst at his previous hearing. 2 yrs ago he was aggressive to female nurses.
He’s now ‘Ken Johnson’.
Might be at your park today.