14141185158 meter number @kplc_token@KenyaPower_Care@KenyaPower we don’t have power from yesterday it’s been over 24hours and Muranga team haven’t responded
You owe your spouse sex. If you don’t want sex, then go and live alone or with your relatives and share the bills. Release your partner to someone who is excited to share romantic love.
I recently came across a post from a woman
She had left a ten-year marriage because she was bored, though she didn’t put it that way, not even to herself. What she said was that she’d outgrown it. That she started looking at the next thirty years and feeling trapped by their sameness. That the best parts of her had nowhere to go.
She spent months trying to understand what was happening. He hadn’t cheated. He hadn’t become cruel. They weren’t screaming at each other. Which only made the restlessness harder to explain.
She kept asking herself when it had happened. What had changed? Why she felt this way? And why she couldn’t seem to fix it. At some point the questions shifted. Have we become roommates? Is this really what marriage is supposed to feel like?
If she’d felt this way for this long, surely something had to be wrong.
Her husband was stable, kind, and present. He came home. Paid the bills. Took out the trash. Sat beside her every night.
What she wanted from him, though, hadn’t really changed. Ten years in, she still wanted to feel what she’d felt in the beginning. She wanted the electricity to stay.
Eventually, she left and found something electric again. For a while, it worked. But that relationship developed its own quiet stretches and ordinary days, and before long, the familiar question returned.
Am I being fulfilled?
Along with it came a thought she could never quite bring herself to finish.
Maybe this is me. Maybe I’m the thing that doesn’t change.
It was the most honest thought she had.
Somewhere along the way, difficult had stopped meaning worth working through. It had started to feel like a warning.
If it takes this much work, maybe we’re forcing it.
Every long relationship goes through quiet stretches, weeks of low warmth, seasons where you look across the table and think: is this really it? Have we run out of things to say? That isn’t a sign the marriage is broken. It’s a sign it’s long.
Feelings rise and fall. Duty remains.
Nothing in this argument asks anyone to remain in an abusive, degrading, or fundamentally destructive relationship. Duty is not slavery. When cruelty, betrayal, or chronic contempt destroy the relationship itself, leaving isn’t the abandonment of duty. It is the recognition that what duty was meant to protect no longer exists.
Abuse and irreconcilable incompatibility are reasons to leave. Boredom and quiet disconnection are not. One grows worse with time. The other belongs to every long relationship. Confusing the two is where many decisions go wrong.
Nobody takes vows because they expect to feel deeply in love every day for fifty years. Vows exist because everyone understands that feelings are temporary. That’s why people make promises. If happiness were enough, nobody would need promises in the first place.
President of Botswana 🇧🇼 Duma Boko stunned the audience after stopping midway through his speech to deliver a brutal but powerful lecture on relationships, loyalty, and trust.
@KenyaPower_Care seems like the whole of thika town is powered off from yesterday 4pm till now 9:30 its not back , no schedules, phones off, things spoil in fridges and affecting bussinesses..Kplc you need to start paying us for such inconvinences,