Resulta que me han diagnosticado estrés postraumático complejo. No era depresión ni tlp. Era trauma físico y emocional. Y nadie me ayudó ni intentó entenderme, salvo mis padres. Solo me juzgaron. Que os den por culo a todos. Hasta nunquiiiii 🥰💫
I hate Capitalism so much man, I don't have a more eloquent way to put it right now, I hate the way it's brainwashed people into believing we have to live like this. That our reason for being is to buy and sell and to be bought and sold.
Once a trauma therapist said something that stopped me cold:
"People-pleasing isn't kindness. It's a child negotiating for safety in an adult body."
Here are 7 ways she said this old survival deal still runs your life: 1/10
Imagine losing access to my laugh, my weird questions, my uplifting reminders, the way I see life, the depth of my conversations, my spark and most of all, my love and presence.
Patriarchy is so deeply rooted that WOMEN can walk into someone else's house as guests and still somehow end up in the kitchen.
While the MEN even from the host family get to sit back, relax, chill, enjoy the food, and talk about how much they sacrifice for their families. 🙄
Qué privilegio seguir siendo una obra inconclusa. Todavía puedo aprender, cambiar de opinión, corregir mis errores, amar mejor y convertirme en alguien que hoy apenas alcanzo a imaginar.
Maybe i am too woke but I'm actually glad birth rates are declining. Not because children are a burden, but because more people are finally realising they're not fit to be parents and that's a far kinder decision than bringing a child into a life they're not prepared for.
Some of you don't realize how much of your personality can disappear when you don’t feel emotionally safe around someone. You become quieter. More careful with your words. Less playful, less willing to be seen. Some connections expand you. Others teach you to disappear.
People don’t realize that you can actually push someone so far that they no longer want anything to do with you anymore. This applies to friendships, relationships, and even family.
Sometimes, people assume that because you love them, whether as a friend, partner, or family member, you will continue to tolerate anything: disrespect, neglect, hurtful actions, lack of effort, or emotional stress.
Everyone has limits, and there is only so much one person can take before they choose peace over connection.
Even the most patient, kind-hearted person can reach their breaking point.
When someone continuously feels unappreciated, misunderstood, or mistreated, they can reach a place where they emotionally disconnect. And once someone emotionally disconnects, it is very hard to repair that relationship.