We do not often talk enough about the psychological trauma carried by victims of kidnapping.
Some months ago, I met a Catholic priest who had just been released after spending more than a month in captivity. Physically, he was free. But emotionally and psychologically, the experience was still haunting him.
You could not make sudden loud noises around him. Every sharp sound startled him because, to his mind, it felt like gunfire all over again. Fear had settled deeply into his nervous system. At the time, he was already undergoing therapy to help him recover from the trauma.
Sometimes, when we discuss kidnapping, we focus only on the period of captivity and ransom. But many victims continue suffering long after they regain their freedom. Some return home alive, yet deeply wounded within.
This is why insecurity is not just a political issue. It is also a human and psychological crisis.
Withdrew N50k in cash this morning. To see how long it will last.
My thinking is it should take me till the end of the month. Or close.
We’ll see how it goes.
You have to be 16 to drive.
You have to be 18 to vote.
You have to be 21 to drink.
You have to be 25 to rent a car.
Why are teachers talking to our kids about sexuality at 12?
Why are kids encouraged to mutilate their bodies at 13?
This gender ideology madness needs to end.
Our latest BRICKS project for a client in Asaba, Delta State.
I am not just into Electronics, phones, laptops and general gadgets, i also do Real Estate and we build with both normal cement blocks and BRICKS.
If you want us to build for you in any corner of Nigeria, DM me.🤝
We are so divided as people that we rarely have a unified front or interest to fight on. Kids and their caregivers were abducted and I see so much division and blame throwing all in the name of blind loyalty to things that keeps dividing us.. Religion/tribe/politics etc
YES!! According to Canada Immigration: Judgment (Docket: IMM-6591-24, Citation: 2025 FC 1093, Justice Phuong T.V. Ngo) in the immigration/asylum case Egharevba v. Canada (Public Safety and Emergency Preparedness).
Money? I fit beg you for am if i don't have it. But, you see love, affection, and attention? NEVER!
If you are at any point in life, you think it's okay to beg someone for love, affection, or attention. Just go ahead and commit seppukuu. 🙏🏾
Nigerians cannot draw a straight line between their electoral choices and the state of their country. For most, many man-made disasters are acts of God. The politicians reinforce that belief to keep them in that mental silo.
It's sad.
There is something women do that I find funny.
When I am quiet or stare into nothingness, you ask what is on my mind. Madam, there is nothing on my mind.
I'm a quiet person and I easily drift into quietness. Do women understand it is okay to just want to be quiet in your own space? Everything is not an opportunity to gist for gist sake.
They never like my answer. They want gist. There is no gist and there is nothing only mind. Frankly, I actually do not like that question